Listen Princess: I Don’t Want To Date You

“You seem like an amazing person. Is there sometime when we can get together outside of here, maybe for coffee?”   “I’m sorry, I’m not really looking for a relationship right now.”   “Uhhhhhhh…”      Have you ever been caught in that situation? I have, more than once. Regardless of whether or not that’s the…

6 Terrible Things About Dating

Everyone wants to give a good first impression, sometimes even if it’s not the most authentic impression. I need to be confident, but don’t be cocky, be honest about myself, but don’t brag. Plan and take control, but don’t be overbearing. Commit to a relationship, but not too fast. Be present and engaging, but don’t be clingy….

Homos In Heaven: A Letter To My Gay Friends

So you want to know if it is okay for you to be gay? You want to know if God made you that way? You want to know if your homosexuality will keep you from heaven? As you probably have already had hammered down your throat, a lot of Christians don’t think you will go…

5 First Dates Everyone Should Go On

Dating can be fun or dating can be awkward, it all depends on how you do it. I’m a big fan of dating because you get to know what you like, what works well with you, and what is important to you. Here are a list of the first five dates I think everyone should…

10 Things to Look for Before Entering a Relationship

Are you looking for that special someone? Are you in the dating process? Aside from this sounding like some gimmick advertisement, I promise you I will not be offering you a special recipe to make all of your wildest dreams come true. However, over the past couple of months as I went through a “dating…

10 Tips For Successful Relationships

Want to win in relationships? Here are a few tips. One thing you should know is that I am not an expert.  I learn new things about dating, relationships, and marriage everyday.  These are just a few of the many things I’ve learned and hopefully these will help some of you have richer relationships. Note: these…

To My Future Wife

How’s it lookin, good-lookin? I don’t know who you are yet.  I don’t know what you look like.  I don’t know the color of your eyes.  I don’t know the color of your skin.  I don’t know your name.  There are a lot of things that I don’t know about you, but there are a…

The Anti-Gospel

In the 21st century, the American Church is more known for what it is against than what it is for.  I was watching a late night talk-show host interview people on the street asking them to recite the “Ten Commandments.”  Most of the people did pretty good.  “Don’t steal.  One God.  Dont say God’s name…